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Funeral Eulogies Should Touch Hearts |
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Saturday, 13 March 2010
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Funeral eulogies need to be carefully prepared. After all it is probably the last time you will be speaking publicly about the deceased. What you say can comfort the relatives and friends or, if badly prepared, add to their distress. So it is well worth doing your homework before you speak. It's worth remembering that your relationship with the deceased is an individual one. You may be speaking as a brother, a mother or a friend. Each one of you will have a different view of the deceased and you should speak from that viewpoint. As a friend your relationship might have been a teasing, fun one. Your eulogy should reflect that fact while bearing in mind that relatives are feeling sad and so what you say should never offend. Funeral eulogies should always reflect well on the person who has died. So while you may certainly say that your friend had a wonderful sense of humour you must never include a blue story in your eulogy. As a mother you may tell a story of childhood, as a relative perhaps you could describe a visit the deceased made to your home or an outing you shared. Length is another important feature. Eulogies should be short because there may be another funeral due after yours. Then took the relatives and friends can only take so much sorrow. So ensure that your words are short and sincere. Sincerity is the most important feature of eulogies. Your love, affection or respect for the deceased should shine through. Try to add to the sum of knowledge about the deceased. People may know he or she was kind. Give an example of a hidden kindness to prove your point. He or she may be well known as a sportsperson but less well known as an avid reader. So you might describe his or her visits to the local library coming home absolutely weighed down with books and all of them about murders! Funeral eulogies are like snapshots of the deceased. They should show what the person you are mourning was like. Whether you show them in colour or in black and white is really about how much work you put into the eulogy. So consult family and friends and make your picture a rounded one while still keeping the emphasis on what the person who is dead meant personally to you. So work on those eulogies and make snapshots that people will want to keep in their hearts. Niamh Crowe Copyright Speechwriters 1995-2010 marketing@speech-writers.com Tel. +353 1 8333599 Article Source: http://www.ArticleBlast.com |
About The Author:
Niamh Crowe has written Eulogies for 20 years. She has written thousands of speeches for every event and occasion including Funeral speeches, inspirational speeches, funeral eulogies etc.
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