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How To Become An Alpha Male And Attract Beautiful Woman

Article Submitted by: dhale mercado

Wednesday, 17 March 2010

I'm sure you've heard the term Alpha Male before. Some guys associate this phrase with an animal species: the strongest and toughest lion or monkey that the others defer to and gets first crack at the food and the most desirable females.

Some guys have a negative opinion of what it means to be an Alpha Male. It could mean the football captain who used to rule their high school, intimidating the underclassmen and snatching all the hot chicks. Or perhaps you work with an Alpha Male: a "man's man" who radiates confidence and energy, and always gets what he's after. He might be a pain in the ass to work for, but you gotta respect the guy.

Whatever you see in your mind's eye when you think of Alpha Males, the truth is that most men believe that you're either born "Alpha," or you are destined to be a regular, average Nice Guy who has narrow dating options. But the truth is, we've all got an Alpha Male within us. I'd like to give you three tips on how to bring out your Alpha side. These come from recent experiences in my life...

The Alpha Male, Tip #1: Displaying your Alpha Male side means displaying charm, confidence and positive energy with men AND women. Always build your social network! This is SO important. Look, I've seen lots of guys who study "pickup" because they want to learn how to become an Alpha Male. A lot of them become more successful with talking to women and can occasionally pick up a girl, yet they continue to feel intimidated or hostile towards other guys - especially guys who they think are better-looking or cooler than they are, or guys who are getting more attention from women.

Obviously when you go out to socialize, your primary ambition is to meet girls, but making new friendships with "Alpha" guys is going to elevate your long-term game. Make this a habit: when you're at a bar, club, or party -- and you see guys who have cool, positive energy and are having a good time (and getting attention from women) -- introduce yourself to them. Walk up to the coolest-looking dude in the room and tell him, "Bro, I'm impressed. The girls into you, what's your secret?" There is a 90% chance that he will shake your hand, want to know you, and now you've got this guy as a friend and wingman.

Expanding your network of Alpha Male friends (and wingmen) will have massive benefits. You will find yourself being invited to parties, bars and events that you normally wouldn't have known about. They might also know women they want to introduce you to. Also, when you surround yourself with cool Alpha friends it automatically raises your social status in the eyes of women.

You may need to begin spending your free time with some new guys, if the friends you normally go out with lack the right level of confidence and energy.

The Alpha Male, Tip #2: My second quick tip on how to become an Alpha Male is that you must stop being wishy-washy, and be decisive instead. Lay out a path for women to follow, and they will respect you for it. It may sound chauvinistic, but it's true. A girl doesn't want to be the one to decide where to go eat dinner with you, or which bar to go to for drinks. Actually, when you act indecisive around her, and make weak suggestions, you're actually causing her to lose interest in you. A girl needs to feel that you able to provide emotional stability and security.

Whenever there is a decision to be made, YOU need to step up and express how you think it should go. Even if it's as unimportant as deciding where to go eat or have coffee. She might not always agree, but she will respect the fact that you have a definite opinion.
The weak move is saying to a girl, "So if you're not busy sometime, maybe we could meet up and do something..."

On the other hand, an Alpha Male might say this: "So what's your favorite funny movie of all time? I'll rent it and we can watch it at my place on Friday night, while you sample some of my cooking." Or, "You mentioned you love Italian food. Well, I discovered this awesome restaurant that's a hidden gem, and I want to show it to you. I'll pick you up Saturday night at eight o'clock."

The Alpha Male, Tip #3: Leave them wanting more. True Alpha Males are busy people on the move. They're not going to grant you endless amounts of their time. Your outlook should be the same with girls. YOU want to be the one ending the conversation first, whether it's a conversation at a bar, or a phone call to set up a date.
The average guy will talk... and talk... until the woman finally says, "I have to go find my friend" or "it's was nice to meet you, but I have to get going..." You should always have a goal in mind when you converse with a woman, and achieve that goal before the conversation ends. At a bar, the goal might be to get her phone number and email address. Or, if you're calling her on the phone, the object could be to establish when you're going to see her next. Essentially, you've got to have a plan, a plan, and a way to pull it off.

You don't ever want to drag out the conversation to the point where she has to excuse herself. This indicates to a woman that you are too eager to "win her over." On the other hand, when you are the one to end the interaction, she will assume that you're a busy, social guy with other options.

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