|
Men, If You're Doing This, It Will Push Your Wife Into Another Man's Arms Every Time… |
Written by Calle Zorro
Thursday, 21 February 2008
|
You can deeply love your wife... To spend the rest of your life with her can be your greatest desire... But, if you possess one certain characteristic, you can be assured that two things will happen:
Would you like to know what this one characteristic is so you can avoid it? Yes? Here it is... Wait... Maybe it's better that you discover it for yourself in the following... Do you frequently wonder what your wife's true feelings are towards you? Are you always asking her if she loves you? And, if she does say that she loves you, do you often doubt that she really means it in her heart? What about phone calls or letters that she receives? Is it really important to you to know who they are from and what was said? Do you secretly question if your wife is really committed and true to you? Are you one who likes lots of reassurance from your wife that everything in your marriage relationship is ok? Maybe, you want constant confirmation from your wife that she'll always be with you and will never leave you? And, if something does go wrong in the marriage relationship, do you automatically start wondering if it's over with and thinking that there's no hope? Stop! Have you already picked up on what the characteristic is? Here it is in a word... INSECURITY And, the bad news is that insecurity never runs by itself...it always drags along its close cousins of CONTROLLING, NEGATIVITY, and SUSPICION. The insecure man tries to "control" his wife - although he rarely realizes it - even as he interprets everything about her with "suspicion" and injects "negativity" into everything she does. That's why I can assert that an insecure man's wife will eventually check out emotionally after which she will physically depart the marriage relationship. It's a fact...the insecure man IS losing his wife. The only question is how long it will be before she's gone. You see, a husband's continual insecurity wears on his wife. It grates on her nerves. It emotionally drains her. See, with all of life's bombardments, one has to work at keeping themselves emotionally healthy. But, when you also have to be an "emotional support system" for another person, it quickly becomes too much...too draining. At the start of the relationship, although a wife may find it irksome that her husband needs constant reassuring, she'll go ahead and give it to him. But, she quickly reaches a state where she's given out all of her reassurance and she has no reassurance left for herself. Even worse, she's not getting the reassurance from her husband that she craves... She's always giving out reassurance but never getting anything back in return. This wife quickly tires of having to constantly reassure an insecure husband. She tires of giving. She tires of trying. On one hand, she DREAMS of being with a man who causes her to feel alive and exhilarated. On the other hand, she LIVES with a husband whose nagging insecurity leaves her feeling drained and exhausted. And so, a wife who is married to an insecure man goes through a progression:
These three steps are the wife's "checking out emotionally" phase that I referred to at the beginning. And, once she's completed this process of "checking out", she WILL leave. She will leave as a matter of SELF-PRESERVATION - as a matter of protecting her sanity, dignity, and peace-of-mind. Bottom line, it is a foolish man who expects his wife to understand, support, and hang around to be tormented by his insecurity. ### If you liked this article, you should know that Calle has put his best information about how to create a happy, sex-filled marriage into a book that's available here: http://www.NymphomaniacWife.com Also, if being able to shoot your ejaculate sounds interesting to you, click over to http://www.IWantMySemenToShoot.com To learn more about Calle Zorro, go to http://www.MarriedAndHappy.com Copyright 2008, Article by Calle Zorro Article Source: http://www.ArticleBlast.com |
About The Author:
If you liked this article, you should know that Calle has put his best information about how to create a happy, sex-filled marriage into a book that's available here: http://www.NymphomaniacWife.com
If you liked this article, you should know that Calle has put his best information about how to create a happy, sex-filled marriage into a book that's available here: http://www.NymphomaniacWife.com
Also, if being able to shoot your ejaculate sounds interesting to you, click over to http://www.IWantMySemenToShoot.com
To learn more about Calle Zorro, go to http://www.MarriedAndHappy.com
Copyright 2008, Article by Calle Zorro
You are welcome to publish this article free of charge on your website, newsletter, or e-zine, provided:
- You don't change the article in any way
- You include the entire article, including the "about the author" box
- All hyperlinks must remain intact, including email addresses, and the link to ArticleBlast.com at the bottom
- In doing so you agree to indemnify the article's author, and ArticleBlast.com and its directors, officers, employees and agents from and against all losses, claims, damages and liabilities which arise out of its use
- It is also recommended that you provide a courtesy copy of your publication to the author of the article
