The facebook approach on the street is really simple:


1) Go to a girl and ask her opinion on something (you can use common openers like the opinion opener "who lies more - men or women?" or say that you want to buy your girlfriend a nice top but are unsure about the color and where to look for it... That way you also disqualify yourself from being the next guy who's hitting on her).

2) Talk for a while. Tell her that she's right or that she has an interesting opinion.

3) Say goodbye, turn around and pretend to walk away.

4) Then, simply turn around again and say with a confident voice: "Hey! Are you on facebook? You seem to be an expert on fashion/...Maybe I will contact you for further advice."

Getting her facebook contact info allows you in best case to get some information about her without any additional conversation (as facebook is about displaying one's personality). In worst case she won't answer your mails, but this rarely happens.

The reason why you are not asking for her number is that a girl is much more likely to give a guy she has just met her online contact info than her mobile number. There's no real commitment for her in giving you her online contact information. It's not such a big deal as giving her number to a stranger who probably only wants to get in her pants. Facebook is a social interaction platform and girls love to check out new guys online. And if she doesn't like you, she still can ignore you.

This way you can ask a lot of girls and actually get in touch with them without displaying an obvious interest in them. If she says she's not on facebook, keep cool and ask her about her email address. No matter what she says stay friendly and relaxed as if you're doing this all the time. Keep in mind: girls often act bitchy to test your reaction (a shit test).

Remember to smile and have a friendly but confident voice. Actually, about 80 % of the communication is nonverbal. So, it's more about how you approach (body language, voice, timing) than what you say.

Tape yourself on video to see how other people perceive you. It really gives you a reality check. Practice as long as you finally like "this" guy on the tape and your results with girls will skyrocket as you will become much more self-confident. And self-confidence is what girls are really looking for in a guy as it demonstrates a high status.

You will find more details and tips (openers, body language tips, how to increase your confidence aso.) in this e-Book.