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Written by CD Mohatta
Saturday, 20 May 2006
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Some of us make huge money. Some makes a real big amount. It is as if they have a magic formula. Look at the rich list. Most of them find their name repeated year after year. At the same time there are some who are born with great intelligence and... |
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Written by CD Mohatta
Saturday, 20 May 2006
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Lot of discussion takes place about the difference between friendship and marriage. Two good friends marry at times. But what about married partners, do they become good friends? What are the qualities of friendship that are not found in a marriage... |
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Written by CD Mohatta
Saturday, 20 May 2006
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Game playing is as old as civilization. Positive games enhance the relationship, while negative games can damage the relationship. Let me give you an example of positive game. You know that one of your friends is suffering from inferiority. You play... |
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Written by CD Mohatta
Saturday, 20 May 2006
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Many relationships would be saved if the partners had listened to each other. Many relationships would have been broken quite early if the partners had listened? And that would have been good. What use is a relationship that only prolongs the... |
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Written by CD Mohatta
Saturday, 20 May 2006
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I have spoken about various games we play in relationships. The games that are mostly negative drain the relationship of its charm and effectively kill all the love and care that partners can have for each other. Here is one more such game that is... |
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Written by CD Mohatta
Saturday, 20 May 2006
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Every relationship demands sacrifices. Every relationship demands adjustment. It is give and take all the way. Some call it compromise. Others call it negotiation of needs. Whatever you call it, the truth is that we accept what our partner wants... |
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Written by CD Mohatta
Saturday, 20 May 2006
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Emotional and physical abuse is believed to be only for women. Men are the abusers and women the victims. Do not women abuse men? Yes they do get abused and mercilessly. A woman can be brutal when it comes to blames and accusations. She can invent... |
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Written by CD Mohatta
Saturday, 20 May 2006
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I was watching him. Sometimes, he was giving a faint smile. Then he started looking at the ceiling and then started changing his feet position while sitting. After that he was sitting still for some more time. Then he got up and left the room.Do you... |
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Written by CD Mohatta
Saturday, 20 May 2006
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Anger is the natural reaction of helplessness and frustration. When we feel that we are being forced to suffer, we get either angry or feel very helpless. When we feel victimized, we get angry with our abuser. What about your relationship? Are you... |
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Written by CD Mohatta
Saturday, 20 May 2006
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Watch a cloud in the sky. It seems stationary. Slowly it moves and after sometime, without our realizing, that cloud is gone. Sometimes love disappears from a relationship like that cloud.When the relationship begins, everything looks ok. The... |
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